For example, these are very small things to say, but he used to really hold on to that

Say I sent him a post, as an instagram msg, (which I used to frequently, sending him some philosophical quote or read) , and then this one time I sent him something, which was on love and as soon as I sent him, I decided to delete it because I thought he might take it personally and get the hint that maybe it was about us.

So, as soon as I deleted it, he managed to see it and then he wouldn’t let it go, he legit got angry on such a stupid thing.

He was like , you dont want to share anything with me, why would you send something and delete it and he just wouldn’t let that go . And I am not someone who would let someone just stay angry, I did tell him sorry and tried to convince him a lot bbut he just didnt listen and finally said gud night and left and for days I couldnt let tht be (because I wanted him to understand that it wasnt ok to let things stay unresolved atleast before sleeping)

The other would be : say I was talking to him on call for like half an hour and then I asked him to come on meet because I wanted to show him something cool. But as soon as I left that call, my sister called me to hangout with her, so I texted him, that maybe I can catch up with him later.

To which he pretended to be fine.

But then after ten minutes our club members call us up for an informal meeting, so I told them in the grp, the same thing, that I might join in later.  But after talking to my sister I,because its necessary for your position to bond in the club, I join the informal meeting first (where he is also present) , instead of calling him to continue from where we left.

So then I get this angry message from him, that u just told me u werent available , and now u are in the meeting and I was waiting for you(when I had already let him know that I wouldnt want him to wait) .  So, I left the meeting and called him immediately, but he just wouldn’t pick my calls at that point and neither talk to me, he was pissed for I dont know what reasons. But unresolved issues make me bothered even if it doesn’t to him

So the next day I called him to resolve this, i told him sorry and I also made it very clear that, just because it was him, I tried to sort it out, but if it were any other guy friend of mine expecting this, then I might have lashed out.

Now, i think such convos should have given him some hint of what I was feeling and his this anger seemed kind of something what a boyfriend would expect i felt.

What do u think, please let me know