Ohk i dont know how to explain his overtechnicality but something like

What happened recently was.

I wanted to talk to him about something but he went all silent the entire day, because he was sleeping(but he hadnt told me that then)

So naturally i was a bit upset the next day, that I msgd u and u weren’t responsive at all so, he called me

And told me that he was sleeping the entire day, why was I making a deal out of it.

So I told him he should have atleast told me that instead of ignoring completely.

But we couldn’t continue our conversation further.

Now, i was getting a bit anxious by the end, so I kind of was angry, that I felt that maybe we were connecting again because he had been video calling me evry day for a week then until that day, so I just didnt want to lose that again.

He told me he will call me back so I waited, and had begun tofeel that maybe this was wrong onmy part he isnt my boyfriend and so I wanted to resolve this from my end as well if hecalled

Butbythen wewere Exchanging a bit of text

And the thing that happened is he was suddenly bursting me with a bunch of text that he probably wont be able to VC but will surely call,

So I said that if he is busy we can maybe take it up later its fine, I can wait.

So he asked if I was ok?

And I told him referring to that very msg, that I would let him know on call(since i didnt want to get started on text, i think thats a very poor mode of resolving anything)

So he asked again the same question and I again told him that yes its fine I ll tell him on the call.

And somehow he assumed it as something close to ignoring his actual msg

He called later, i talked politely because i wanted this to get resolved.

But then  to counter his absence the day before he started comparing it to me ignoring his msg “are you fine”

I couldnt believe him then, how was he even finding the logic.

I tried to make him understand that I genuinely didnt ignore hismsg, and I was actually replying to the same msg. But according to him,  the only fair reply wod have been either u r fine or you arnt.

But then he went like,I ignored you for one day and you are making a deal out of it,

And you just now ignored my msg , nothing abt that.

Although he knows that I would have said sorry if without a thought, If i would have genuinely felt i ignored his msg

This matter was really stupid and then he kind of started talking to me rudely, making fun of the way I was fumbling(which i do at times) and it really hurt me, so I told him on that call, that resolving an issuewould be a different thing but one is never supposed to talk rudely to ppl close to them (he didnt use to do that before ) and he knew i dont talk to ppl in that tone, so he went silent and didnt apologize.

And it went like that for seven days( we werent in contact) and it really hurt me very bad, that such a small matter could go on to this extent,  seven days later hecalled me and i told him it wasnt ok to comeback like nothing happened, and that was the first time I burst in tears while saying that, I used to talk to him very politely and he knew that, and he was suddenly being rude to me just because he qas angry. But he felt really bad and sad and he did apologize, but I knew it was too late by then. I did forgive him

But i guess this was the last fight we had after which I had really decided this was it, the confusion needs to go, we have been fighting just because of unmatched expectations