Anita,

My ex and I had discussed getting my daughter in other activities.  I pushed this because she is not athletic and I did not want it to start effecting her self esteem.  He puts the children in numerous sports activities. while I think it is great for  my son it’s not so good for her.  He signed her up for cheerleading per us both deciding that was a good call.

With soccer-like many discussions he will take something and run with it in a different direction.  I told him I do not want her to play basketball the next season.  He pushed for softball to continue and I said OK.  We briefly talked about soccer leaving it open for the next session.

I’m trying to get her into an Art class.  My boyfriend’s daughter who is Ella’s age takes the class and really enjoys it.

I just requested him to upload the AppClose because I no longer wanted to communicate via email or text. He uploaded the app so hopefully this will help.