@Jay2023 even with no heartbreak we can all experience rough days. It’s never linear bro so just keep reminding yourself even if spirits drop , they’ll pick up again. 9 months? I thought you broke up 2 months ago?

Nostalgia. It’s one of those things. Even though I no longer have any desire for her everytime I pass the very first date spot of my ex it brings it back and I can’t help but smirk. I couldn’t keep my hands off her that evening. Oh how things change! Don’t think B would be too pleased to read this, better park that thought there.

I’d like to think I have a good heart too bro ahaha,  I know I let myself down and I got lost a little focusing too much on the wounds from my past , meaning I missed the Angel in front of me. Its all good though I did right in the end,  it just made me realise never to take her for granted and also how strong our love was if we survived that. I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Has your mate split up too? It might be a great bonding experience to heal together and spur each other to grow. Maybe this is the connection you need to focus on. Whereas I had to focus on dumping my lads! Bad bad advice offered by them.