@Dannydan somebody out there is thinking about the tremendous impact you’ve had on their life…..its not me, I think you’re an idiot 😜 I kid! You’re an amazing guy Danny, don’t  spoil your own happiness! Thank you for the sweetest testimony lol it was my pleasure and of course you can tag me anytime. I’m still here, I want to read your post when you tied the knot I like conclusions lol. I just will not be actively looking each day at this thread. @Jay2023 seems good and the thread doesn’t need anymore help.

Think about the reconciliation with your ex bestie but if bridges have well and truly been burned then just express that politely to him and your ex. Don’t overthink it, see it for what it was, a gesture of good will and peace.

You have moved on and blessed with ‘B’, they are presumably happy so maybe they wanted to create a healthy relationship with you. I’m sure if you miss him, he misses you too. You can still choose not to create space in your life for them and that’s your right but don’t hold grudges or residual resentment unnecessarily, just be forthcoming and honest with them by communicating how you feel.

You and ‘B’ will be fine, think of her love language like you told me to, and make an expression through that. Take care Danny! X