Dear Umm:

What you brought up today is not an issue that is likely to resolve today or any time soon. I would like to let you know that there is no time-limit to posting here. Some members start one or several threads and post for many months and even years. Just the other day I communicated with a member who has been posting since 2014. So, if you would like, take your time, and post whenever you feel the need. You can communicate with any one or all members who reply to you over time, no rush.

anita