I see it as a GOOD choice

thank you, although this was late, it seems i only feel bad when people mentation bad things about me and not the opposite

 because it includes not hurting anyone (!) and not bringing children into a life that’s likely to be a lot of suffering (!!)

that’s not the only reason, but i thought if im gonna have children am gonna adopt, either way its not worth it to bring someone that is mostly likely gonna suffer, even if i KNOW he won’t it still better to adopt, its like saving someone or creating someone to save

 what is the temperature there, I wonder?

very hot

And is there a lake close to where you live where you can get into the cool water on a hot summer day?

no lakes here, only buildings and stores, i live in the city, we have 3 showers at home, and all have cold and hot shower, and air conditioner in every room