Dear Felix,

What do u think of this girl behavior, can u seem to analyzed it? Is she actually an attention seeking girl?

It appears she is seeking attention, frequently posting selfies, asking questions like “do I look like this actress?”, posing in more provocative outfits… Earlier she told you she doesn’t want to seek attention of the opposite sex, since her parents forbid her to be in a relationship, but maybe now that she isn’t going to live with her parents any more, she feels freer and more keen to attract attention.

What’s for sure is that she ‘s changed, and you don’t even like that change, because you liked it when she was modest and now she became coquettish. Maybe she’s not the same person you once knew – or maybe she didn’t show you this coquettish, attention seeking side before.

In any case, I think it would be for your own good to unsubscribe from her instagram, because she’s only provoking anxiety and jealousy in you. You say that when you see those photos, you are hoping for a future with her. But the reality is that she directly told you not to expect anything from her, and she stopped chatting with you. She’s young, is going to soon live away from her parents, and is probably keen to explore life. You cannot make her stop, you cannot change her behavior, you cannot do anything but accept that her path is different than yours.

The only thing you can do is to unsubscribe from her instagram and untangle yourself from her, because she has a bad influence on you. What might help you is to know that she’s different from the girl you knew and liked in the past, and her  current self isn’t even attractive to you – except for the physical looks. But her personality is not attractive to you any more, so try to focus on that and let her go.