Dear Anita,

“I don’t know the exact wording of your conversations with him, but if he said X before, and later said Y (Y being the opposite of X)- that’s confusing. If he has been contradicting himself again and again.. then he has been confusing you again and again, before and after the breakup.”- you are exactly right , i mean we argued when we were at the start of our relationship but i have never been confused the way i am right now and i guess that comes alot from the swinging that happened between him being a support/safe system and suddenly being the exact opposite…i will make sure to come back and ask for your precious advice once this wound has healed.

Thank you for all you do, sending a big hug

Natie