Dear Karma,

Yes, you understood me right.. My life was limited to him. But i was nowhere in his list of priorities.

Right. So now you’d need to become more independent of him. If I understood well, you have a job, so you’re financially independent of him, right? By the way, how is the atmosphere at your work  place? Do you have good colleagues, is it pleasant to work there?

Next is emotional independence – that you don’t need him to emotionally support you, listen to you, soothe you, give you his opinion etc. You say you have family and friends who are very supportive. Do you feel you can speak to them openly, without feeling judged by them?