Hello
You quite didn’t understand everything. Pretty difficult by distance I imagine. I don’t pursue anything. I will go there and feel how you we are together. But anyway this hard to explain. I will go and in anycase everything will be different compare to what expect or fear and what will be. Maybe my english is not well enough and you misinterpreted . But you tend to select some quotes of your choice and make your opinion without understanding the whole story. You don’t quote other ones.
She shared specifically with me about this anniversary because it’s important for her and this is care. If I would be that distant, I wouldn’t have reconnected after the break last year.
Once you suggest I should come once other not and once again other.. What was exposed was things from the past. And she believe in me and my changes. She just didn’t see them in person And we didn’t met since january 2020. Is it normal ? Even healthy couples could have issue with just texting for so long no see. Don’t you believe in other chances and working the best on ourselves to improve and be better in the future ? That may explain high divorces rates in our countries. So I don’t understand when you say ”I will hurt her again”. I know couples who are happy after they solved their problems.
I will go there. It was advices from friends knowing her. I just wanted to have different inputs how to deal the situation.
I won’t disturb you further. Anyway thanks for all suggestions you gave.
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