P.S.  I just want to add that I think your current plan of going to China for language learning is the best option at the moment, because it will give you the option of being away from home, living more independently from your parents, and exploring various possibilities for yourself. And it’s something your parents support and are willing to pay for. So I think it’s a great way to dip your toes into the independent life, and yet have the safety of your parents’ support, should you need it.