“Tell me more about loyalty. Why is it so important to you? Who taught you loyalty?”

I’m not sure how to answer to this. It’s always been there and like I said before, I bond for life so I’m always the last one to leave a sinking ship. I try to make things work even at my own expense once I’ve bonded with somebody and I tend to put up with a lot, perhaps too much at times.

“How did you feel when he threatened to kill himself if you cut contact? And how did you react? Resumed contact?”

He didn’t outright voice such a threat but did something which could be considered rather suicidal (driving at night while on substances and no intent of coming back) and communicated it to me.

I felt a strong worry of course and resumed contact. However I’ve been very stern and distanced with him after that, which he didn’t take well.