Anita,

So I just called him and ended things. I started out telling him that with my anxiety it’s very hard for  me to deal with open ended things like he doesn’t know when we will get together to talk but we will.  Or he doesn’t know if he wants to get back together at this time.

He then said I was speaking to him in an agressive tone??  That he had told me he wasn’t sure about getting back together but he felt pressure? Why did he reach out in the first place?? I don’t know what he expected from me except a shoulder to cry on?? He was saying all these things about how much he cared for me etc. But on the phone he was a completely different person.

He acted awful Anita.  Like I was a bother.  And no I do not believe he gives what both his daughters need in general.  I am disappointed in myself.  But I am glad I ended it now versus later.  I can guarantee he would not reach out to me again unless he felt like it- which could be a week or 3 weeks from now.  He probably would not have even texted until then.

I feel like I was a toy or something to reach out to when it was convenient to him

Lindsey