Anita,

I was driving home and it all hit me-I had an epiphany.  The root of everything that I have been feeling the last few days is anxiety.  My friend was telling me the truth in his own way and as best he could.

I was upset because I know the truth.  There is a very good chance this man wants to be in a relationship with me- however-

just because someone wants a relationship with you does not mean it will be healthy or what I need emotionally.

There is a good chance this guy will not end up being able to meet my emotional needs.  So I’m not putting all of my eggs in one basket. And I’m not going to worry or text him.  Who really cares at the end of the day.

Lindsey