Anita,

So now you have me thinking about his question.  After he declined to answer via text I never replied to him.  His response was odd to me and I was annoyed.  The next morning he wrote  saying that because he was poor growing up he buys things in excess now as an adult.  Also loses interest in those hobbies and wastes money.

A friend of mine said he was  putting down a boundary by saying  “hey that’s not something I want to talk about yet since this is new. ”

I don’t know what to think.  It’s a possible red flag but is it enough to end things altogether?

Lindsey