Anita,

The approaching holiday has me running around busy.

So not sure where to start.  First I went to Jason’s house for pizza last night and we talked.   he was definitely putting up a boundary not answering via text the negative qualities question I sent him last week.  Because I am not used to anyone putting up a boundary I was annoyed at first. Later on I thought that maybe my ego was bruised or I felt a little embarassed because it was inappropriate?  I’m struggling for the right word.  But he reminded me that was not the first time I did that.  I agree 100% that the question was not appropriate via text.  We spoke of that along with many other things.

To be honest I’m not great with this healthy dating thing so far.  I don’t know how to have appropriate boundaries and I get flustered easily to the point he put his hand on my elbow last night when I was struggling to say what time I should leave.  I think I talk too much.  However, I am  not answering any questions about my divorce and why I got divorced or my relationship with my mom etc. I’m not going to sleep with him anytime soon and I’m proud I did not allow that last night because it probably could have happened.

He got me his favorite book for a Christmas present and I have no idea what I’m doing.  I can’t even keep a schedule together, I forget everything and I have an ancient car that’s always breaking down.  I honestly am not following his feelings LOL.

Lindsey