Hi anita

I agree with you, the materialistic band-aids could never heal the the emotional wounds.

I understand that not contacting them would help in not adding new wounds. And possibly reduce the burden on me to play catch up to their energy.

It’s the one that keeps projecting the primary judgers into other people, making you feel uncomfortable around people even when they don’t judge you at all – your inner critic is a projection of people that judged you. We don’t want to be judged so we are doing it ourselves. My inner voice though doesn’t judge me. It is afraid not judgemental.

I don’t think it just makes her feel strong. When she managed to control us so well, she is the strongest. Just like the general. Maybe most powerful is the right word. She is less wounded than us, she knows what she is doing, which makes her the heroine of every stage.

I understand therapy and moving out are the solutions to this.

Girija

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