Anita

I read your reply.  You are right about the anxious attachment.   His DUI wasn’t from a drinking problem. His ex gf at the time was not supposed to be drinking, but she did and he drank not knowing she was drinking because she was supposed to be his DD.   In fact he doesn’t drink after that incident at all now.   I never knew he suffered from depression until now.  I am not sure if it is the depression talking to if it is really him talking.   I don’t have much experience with depression and an abusive parent like he has.

We had a real and deep meaningful connection and relationship until recently.   How do I go about texting him or calling him in a way that will not make him run away from me and what do i say one last time then i will go about my seperate way and focus on myself until he decides to reach out to me , if that.