Anita,

True.  I was thinking about the recording – if Ella was 12 or 13 yes it could be done. But she is 10 and it would end up a disaster.

I do not have the specifics yet- I’m waiting to confirm that the counselor will see both kids at the same time. Amy is not allowed to be at the counseling sessions-it’s written in our mediation paperwork.  I would prefer for Jon and myself to meet with the counselor separatly and I will suggest that and see what they say.

Lindsey