Should I try to calm down and try to love myself more before I start to love someone else?

Should I once a week get her gifts to remind her I’m still around for her? I won’t contact her directly. I’ll just ask her sister to help me deliver.

Thinking about breaking up with someone special sucks. I haven’t been able to think freely these days.

She told me that she broke up with her first bf who was her longest relationship ever because he felt like she didn’t have time for him as she was busy studying and working. He seemed to not be able to give her the space and time that she wanted.

If I do the opposite (give her space and time as much as she wants), will things turn out to be good for us?