Dear Ik09:

I am glad to read that you are angry at him because if you weren’t angry it would have meant that you thought it was a no-big-deal to hurt your feelings, as if your feelings are not important. Being angry at him for being cruel to you means that you believe that he hurt a person of worth, a person of value, a person whose feelings are precious and should be protected.

You are kind, Ik09. You were always kind to me, but there was a time when I was unkind to you, right here on your thread, and I regret it. It will not happen again.

I want to bring to the front this man’s thread, his thread, study it and post in it what I learn. Please let me know if you prefer that I don’t, will you?

anita