Hi Alecsee

I’m sorry that you are still feeling sad as a result of the dating situation. I can empathise with your pain as I’ve been in similar situations myself and like you, I prefer to be committed to one person. Dating is so tricky and painful! It is awful being vulnerable, building a connection with someone only to be rejected. It is awful trying to make connections that fall apart before they even begin too!

I’m sure that in time you will meet someone suitable that you are compatible with. It can be  difficult to find a life partner. Patience will be a virtue. Just remember that rejection in dating isn’t personal. You can even love someone and sometimes things just don’t work out. It didn’t work out, she rejected you and you rejected her. It is painful but it happens. You will heal in time and learn to guard your heart a little more.

A saying I have when it comes to dating is that you don’t truly know someone until you have lived with them and seen them experience hardship. A good life partner will be someone that you can live with happily, that respects you and doesn’t waver because of difficulties. Wishing you luck on your dating journey!