Dear Anita,

I can try the sauna approach but I don’t think he will thaw LOL.

Here is an example of how completely confused I am.  So yesterday I came across and really good song about liking how someone makes you feel etc.  Then I got anxiety about sending it. First I thought a song was a bit cheesy but most importantly he would take it as an indicator love is being said (well, singing actually) versus really what the lyrics say.  I spoke with him later about it when I went to his house. I felt things were a little off but possibly b/c of the anxiety of the situation. We spoke briefly about it but I woke up this morning thinking I never told this guy that the song meant I really like him and do like how he makes me feel (per the lyrics of the song).

So I sent him a message this morning about it saying the song meant like and not more. Was more than like his impression?  He responded with “I do” and a joking emoji.  His unclear responses are annoying. I’m not bringing it up again since I feel like i have already and I do have anxiety. I’m sitting here still confused as to the entire situation.

Lindsey