Hi Anita,

Smiling?

I smiled when I asked the question & hope you are.  Don’t laugh, I found a 10-minute daily spot that comes on Youtube called Elegant Women.  I have seen it a few weeks & would bypass it.  And today she was talking about do’s and don’ts of how to be elegant (Clothes/purses/shoes which I understand that part & is why I bypassed it.

Today it popped up & she was discussing how & what to do to not seem desperate with men.  What to say & how to respond to them.

One big thing was to respect yourself first and what you do, do it for yourself because it gives you the confidence which radiates when you are out which attracts men, and never ever call or text a man first.  If they call or text DO NOT respond that day.  Make the man earn you and put you on a pedestal.  Also, make them earn your respect and always continue to educate yourself and believe in yourself.

Are you in California if you don’t mind me asking?  You mentioned wildfires & I lived in California where a lot of wildfires are. I was in The Military in Cali which I loved except the weather can be harsh.

I have 4 cats~ 2 Tuxedo babies, 1 Balinese, and a Russian Blue which are all rescues~ I love all animals except a cat person.  I believe it is because they can be so independent and self-sufficient which to me is a special trait.  Also, they can peg a man quicker than I do.  I have only had 3 men in my house since I have been here for 11 years one was my ex.  The other 2 were a 1-time deal and they were here for only a few hours.  If the cats won’t have anything to do with them, they are out quickly.

The Balinese and Russian Blue are very protective over me and my 2 Tuxedo kitties from a distance sit and watch.  The Balinese were fierce & screamed and wanted the creep out.

I am learning to take responsibility and control my life.  I need to practice the Law of Attraction, believe it works, and practice it every day.

I need to start staying focused and stop letting myself get bored.  Everyone gets lonely & should expect the loneliness.  You can be lonely in a room full of people.

Respect yourself and always expect respect from others.

The ex texted this a.m. and nothing since which tells me a lot which is making letting go easier to know I am doing the right thing by letting go.

Have a Nice evening & I look forward to your read.

Shookie~