Dear Anita,
Okay so I understand this much that lot of things are attached to the past childhood trauma etc. And maybe it’s true. but what if I’ve had a “perfect” parent I would be perfect emotionally? I doubt that. Because human mind is not perfect, and I think lot of the responsibilities comes to us after we’re mature enough… Like people don’t even know what they want even when they’re 60-70 and how can we expect our parent meet our every emotional expectation when we’re child? So why putting everything on past childhood traumas to heal instead of trying to recognize our selves now in the present and try to find solution based on the present moment?  because we’re always evolving, and change is the nature. We’re not the same person we were 5-10 years ago

Addy