Dear thosedays,

There is quite abundant info about Adult ADHD out there, you can check out how people suffer from Adult ADHD suffers in relationship.

I’ve read what anita quoted about ADHD and relationships, and I have to admit, one thing puzzles me: You said earlier that your relationship works fine and is peaceful (we matched almost every aspect of life. The relationship works fine, I loved the peacefulness).

Peacefulness, at least to me, seems in contradiction with some of the relationship features described above, such as tension and partner’s frustration because the person suffering from ADHD is not paying attention to them, or is late, or forgets about mutual plans etc.

If your relationship is mostly peaceful, how do you achieve it? Is there very little interaction between you and your girlfriend, perhaps each of you living in your own bubble, and that’s why there is no tension between you either?