Thanks to you all. Yes I’m sticking to plan and his tactics become more clear every day.
i have two daughters ages 11 and 12 so I’m juggling not exposing them to any negative vibes during this process. And it’s also the holiday season so I’m preserving the peace so as not to ruin that for them. I plan to tell them right after Christmas and I’m going to start moving my things out the day after Christmas as well.
I think every day and put myself in his shoes – and I know if I saw who I claimed to be the love of my life slipping away, I’d be digging deep with them and addressing real issues. He’s yet to do this and continues to try to woo me with words and affectations. I do keep a distance though and don’t play onto it.
he’s got a history of manipulating others close to him financially and those closest to him have even told me about it. Even his son said he’s made a habit off living off of others since his wife left. His mom warned me of the same.
he has no access to my bank accounts which is good.