Dear Hello:

You are welcome. “Bottom line is I’m not sure if I need to bring this detail up again with him before the actual day or leave it be“- leave it be and bring it up on the actual day of leaving, is my advice. The less communication with him, the better. Whatever you tell him before it is necessary to tell him, he will either forget, ignore or he will use it against you.

Like I said before, an honest communication with him is not possible, so go to every possible length to not communicate with him, not before, and to the extent that it is necessary. Does this make sense to you?

anita