To be honest, this is a very grounding response, I rarely leave my house, and never alone, it is actually very unlikely anyone will meet me in a vulnerable state. I also expect there’s an element of sexual shame and fear of addiction, which, given my frequency of use, is also unlikely. This makes it more of a set of phobias then, I guess. I also feel unsafe due to the gossiping, which seems to have stopped or been greatly reduced since using tor.