Dear Nichole:

“I am so grateful I have made such progress. I am thankful for never giving up even though I thought about it a million times“- reading this is inspirational!

“I am working on having less contact with him… My brother can get clingy“- are you referring to your older brother or the younger one?

“and sticking to my boundaries. This is something I do across the board. I lose myself in situations, relationships etc. Each time I notice and something arises I learn more and more that I was just so raised to do, do, do, for others. Almost like I was invisible“- you express yourself so clearly, so succinctly, I am impressed!

Good thing you are sticking to your boundaries across the board! Losing yourself in situations with other people and feeling invisible are synonymous. Boundaries keep you visible.

“So I am really just working on what my truth is. Who am I? What do I stand for? How do I develop relationships and own my spot in it“- you are welcome to share your answers to these questions…

Again, good to read from you!

anita