Dear Tee,

“I am absolutely not twisting your words. I said that you see good women as an exception to the rule.” No I am referring to you calling me a misogynist despite admitting that I know good women exist.

“You said that 93% of the women you met were bad (“based on the countless number of people that I have met, the ratio of bad women to good is like 93:100″).” Don’t get me wrong, I meant bad in terms of relationship wise, not in terms of being a kind/good human being. All of them are good people, but they just have their own selfish agenda when it comes to relationships.

“And that’s misogyny. Because you extrapolate your experience to a wider population and believe that indeed, the large majority of women is immoral.” But it is not just based on my experience though, it is based on my experience AND other people’s experiences, including people close to me as well as strangers online all over the world. Let me rephrase it for you to understand better: A large percentage of women ARE immoral, and you will most likely come across more immoral women in your life than moral women. Would you be happier if I didn’t use the term “majority”?

“While some other (such as your school friend) might have been good, caring people, but you saw them as bad.” I said that my school friend had good intentions, but she didn’t respect my wishes, and I will never trust her again for breaking her promise to me. That doesn’t necessarily mean I see her as bad per see but as someone I would never trust again.

“So B – who was lying to you, cheating on you, and even prostituted herself behind your back – appeared to you as 100 thousand times better than most other women you met. Well, if you believe that a woman of a pretty low morale is still much better than 93% of the women out there, it shows that your view of women is pretty distorted.” I said “she is still 100000x better than most of the other women that I have met”. The key phrase is “most of the other women THAT I HAVE MET”. When I mentioned the ratio, I also stated “based on the countless number of people THAT I HAVE MET”. Therefore, the 93% applies to the women that I HAVE MET, not every single women in the world. Obviously, I wouldn’t be able to account for 4 billion women that live all over the world, so no, my view was not distorted cause I was only making reference to the women I know.

“And unfortunately, it shows that you despise women.” If I really despised women the way you think I do, I wouldn’t still be searching for the ideal woman.

“In what sense equal to men? You mean these feminists seek to have an equal say in the marriage?” No, I respect real feminists but the entitled feminists simply take advantage of it for their own selfish benefit and they do things such as, work less than men and still expect to be paid the same as men and then blame the pay gap on gender inequality despite being fully aware that the pay gap was only caused by the difference in work quality. Entitled feminists think they can do everything a man can, cause they don’t recognize that females are better at certain things like emotional intelligence while men are better at other things. Entitled feminists would try to say that the best female soccer team in the world is equal to the best male soccer team. In terms of relationships, an example of an entitled feminist would be someone who would look at a man’s expectations in a woman and call him a “bigot” but when the woman have expectations for a man, she would be called a “woman with good standards”. Another example of an entitled feminist would be a women who calls themselves strong and independent and etc but they hate when the guy they are dating splits the bill 50/50. And another example would be women who see men as controlling when all they are trying to do is protect them.

“When you say “doing whatever they want”, do you mean they shouldn’t be allowed to cheat on their husbands? Or perhaps you mean they shouldn’t be allowed to pursue a career they prefer?” Why do you sound like you are just searching for a reason to call me a misogynist lol? You know exactly what I am trying to say but you will still make suggestions like “perhaps you mean they shouldn’t be allowed to pursue a career they prefer?”. Like seriously? No I am not saying women shouldn’t be allowed to pursue the career they prefer. “Doing whatever they want” is in terms of women who think they should be allowed to participate in activities such as partying or clubbing and spending time with other men when they are obviously in a relationship, and when their man expresses that he doesn’t want her to go to clubs and etc, she calls him a controlling freak. Stop trying to look for a reason to twist my words.

Paradoxy