Dear Clara:

You are welcome!  “Last night when I went home and my first sight was the sofa, and that I see images of her sitting there… I cried so hard. But I felt today, I am more able to face that image again, like I have cried over the idea that she would ever sit in that sofa“- you are gradually accepting a new reality. It takes time to accept and adjust. You are doing well.

“I already booked a therapy session, to review this“- good thing, well done!

“I am 41 this year, and I feel nervous yet quite excited, to finally do this. It will be a small pattern on my arm“- I am excited for you!

“I think I have learned a lot this month“- I focus on learning in my own life every day, and it makes my life better!

“Another thing that I thought of, is to adopt a cat/dog. I have been wanting to do this for a while, but then she doesn’t really like animals. Now that she is gone, I might proceed with a cat/ dog. I want to give these otherwise abandoned animals a proper home“- a new tattoo, a new pet.. I am excited for your new beginnings,  and for the fortunate pet who will be taken in by you!

anita