Dear Clara:

You are welcome!

“I have postponed the tattoo indeed…. I think anything that is so permanent, will make me recall the current status I am in“- I didn’t think about that, excellent point, definitely not the right time for a tattoo!

“Yesterday she texted me on the logistics of moving away…  She has already rented a place…  on the other hand, I feel like I don’t want to let her go, seeing her stuff not around empty would be an indication of that. My heart hurts, knowing that she doesn’t have feelings or love me anymore.“- the faster she moves out, the better. I too appreciate that she seems to accommodate you by moving her things sooner than later.

And I understand your heartache over lost love, and the difficult time you are going through. There is a saying: The Only Way Out is Through, and you are going through a break up. Be strong, you will find yourself sometime in the future, maybe sooner than you expect, feeling so much better.

anita