Dear Clara: I simply didn’t think of it before, but telling a person who loved you for years: I have no feelings for you, is cruel, no matter how true it may be. No need to say it, it creates too much pain. Just don’t say it, it’s not required, it does not provide any benefit for the person who still has feelings for you.

And then saying it, and expecting you to stay out of your own home, so to accommodate the person who has NO FEELINGS for you- is preposterous!

A person who has NO FEELINGS for you does not deserve your empathy or consideration beyond giving her the opportunity to get her things back, closing all financial considerations fairly, justly,  and leaving her behind to feel or not feel what she will, or not, for the people in her life.

anita