Hi Sandy @sandyone

I am not sure what advice you are looking for but I will try to provide my perspective, which may or may not resonate with you.

Only person who can help you is YOU. We all are unique in this world. No other person is like Sandy. This means, Sandy has her own strengths and weaknessess. How Sandy will cope with a situation may be entirely different from how others may deal with that same situation. If I was Sandy, it would be quite clear to me that my current life is not with this guy and I would make a new life for myself. But Sandy is not me.

So you need to figure out what love means to you, what a relationship means to you and what Sandy means for you ? If Sandy is your prime concern then be nice to yourself and move on. Stop tortuning yourself. If Sandy is not your prime concern, then you can continue with your actions and keep living a life with fear.

Can I please recommend this book to you for today and for future: Feel the fear but do it anyway by Susan Jeffers. If you decide to get the book, pls start with the last 2 chapters – if they resonate with you, you will find many of your answers in that book and you will go on to make a beautiful life for yourself. You can get the book from app store or with free delivery from bookdepository.co.uk

Pls be kind to Sandy. She deserves way more happines and let the Universe help you with that. As long as you are stuck to the past or any fears, no one will be able to help you.

Sending you heaps of positive energy and hoping that you will start a new chapter of your awesome life from today itself.

Jasmine