It’s not about “you” right now, it’s about “them”. It has always actually been about “them”, but crisis makes Reality obvious.

Practical Questions:

If he won’t be with her forever, why is she his fiancé? Will he call off the wedding?

Why doesn’t he buy them a modest apartment instead of a house?

There are many forms of love and many ways to love.

The best way to love him right now is to set him up with a financial wizard and a brilliant therapist!