No worries Buddha123.

People can do what they want and how they want and when they want. That’s not the issue here though. You are confusing your own boundaries with others.

When you are hungry, do you look for validation from others to feed yourself or satisfy your hunger ? NO, right. Then, why is it that you are letting another person determine your happiness and peace in this world ?

He can do whatever he wants to do. What do you want ? Do you want peace and happiness or do you want confusion, anger and guilt ?

Decision is in your hands. If you decide to choose happiness and peace, then you need to move on from this gentleman and pay more attention to yourself and your needs. You cant let anyone just barge into your life whenever they want to. You set your boundaries clear, pls. If you choose confusion, anger and other negative emotions, then continue status quo.

Best wishes to you and I hope you will choose happiness and move forward with your head held high up.

Jasmine