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Thanks Maureen.
@talkingwithtinybuddah What a powerful insight. Thanks for sharing. One sentence – what is my core motive ? – has an immense potential to speed up our inner journey. Love it 🙂
Hi Purpose @purpose
Thanks for the honour. Happy to be an elder sister. I dun have a younger sister so sounds great to me 🙂 Don’t you regret your decision woman in the future LOL !!!!
I understand and appreciate that you are on your own inward journey and like all of us, you are learning something positive from each experience.
One concept made a profound effect on my thinking few years ago – “On this planet, whatever gives you happiness has an equal potential for bringing sadness into your life”. We live in duality. Love turns into hate quickly. So many couples come together with love and end up with bitterness post divorce. A person we loved so much at one point becomes a painful sore in our lives at some other point. This is a universal phenomenon and a natural law. If you try to understand it, you will only invite more miseries into life. Acceptance is the easy way out 🙂
Accept that people are complex and all have profound reasons for being the way they are. Yes, there is suffering in this world but there is immense beauty as well. What we need is a vision to see the beauty and accept that suffering is part of the nature. Another concept, which had a profound effect on me is – “Mind can only think of one thought at a time. You can either make it a positive thought or you can choose to think a negative thought. You can either see a good quality in someone or you can choose to see their faults. Why not choose to see only good and positive ?” Atleast, this way, you will not be releasing more negativity into the environment by dwelling in suffering.
I wish you all the best in your forward journey. Make yourself the priority in your life. You will never go wrong if the most important person in your world is YOU as then you will be able to give people the acceptance they need. Once Purpose is the most important being in your world, other people’s words or reactions will not cause you grief or hurt.
Cheers / Hugs
Jasmine