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Hi Yoda428 @yoda428
I am sorry that your friend wrote such a message to you.
If I were you, I would appreciate that feedback and make a mental note of remembering this friend more often (even when things are going good for you). He is obviously wanting your friendship. Give it to him, Bro 🙂
Again, I have a simple way of looking at feedback from others – if it makes sense to me without hurting my ego, I take it on board and make a mental note. If it hurts my ego and forces me to question myself and my motives, I sit on it until the anger dies down. Then I reassess the situation.
Every feedback, incident, situation, circumstance and person can teach us something valuable, which will help us become better version of self. The choice remains in your hands to take it as a criticism or a stepping stone 🙂
Cheer up Bro !!! It aint so bad and you are not a horrible person nor is he. You both are awesome in your own ways.