@inky

Thank you very much for the suggectionthat you have given, i started accepting the way he is; trying this for the past two months after a quarrel and it seems to work well but compromising a lot from my end:(

@Will

Thank you for the suggestion that’s really a good move ! You said how exactly i feel now. i am trying this plan for past two months after a quarrel; i will be keep trying because he is important to me.

He lacks in confidence and fears at taking the responsibility; fears at taking ownership in what he says/does.
I need to teach/improve him to be a man-on his own! without affecting his emotions.

The problem is my voice tone that is actually a bit bold and straight forward ; even if i say some good things during an argument it reverse back to me as a hit because of voice tone:(

Very pathetic to think how to train myself; please help me with some articles/books/advise