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  • September 1, 2014 at 9:38 pm #64221
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    Many Thanks Matt. That’s really a heart-full message which has shown light in the darkness of my life; i will carry it as my guidance and practice those good words said above; What you said has triggered the spark on where i might have been wrong these many days, definitely this will help me to move forward smoothly with my love. I will surely post my status on this topic again after some months on how TB helped me in having good life.Thank you my lovely Brother!! God bless you…

    September 1, 2014 at 4:21 am #64199
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    @Will,

    Thanks for replying about my pathetic situation.I am really in need of someone’s help ; He never said anything about my tone of voice, but i realized when asking the same question in soft voice, he replies me but in restricted way like yes/no/one line reason.
    He never tried to change himself;often says that i am always thinking too much; He thinks that if he is silent, problem will get solved; but in each and every quarrel, i mention him that silence will never solve the problem and the grudge carry forward until he accept some solution; he is very very specific in saying even a word; this is making our relationship very very pathetic. I want him to be little expressive[not like me] on what he thinks for me. he hardly speak one paragraph[collectively] in a day.

    I also have seen him his behaviour in the middle of friends/his siblings which is completely different and he is taking humorously.
    But why is it me suffering from this much struggle? I want him to be very clear mind with his love.

    August 21, 2014 at 4:45 am #63752
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    @inky

    Thank you very much for the suggectionthat you have given, i started accepting the way he is; trying this for the past two months after a quarrel and it seems to work well but compromising a lot from my end:(


    @Will

    Thank you for the suggestion that’s really a good move ! You said how exactly i feel now. i am trying this plan for past two months after a quarrel; i will be keep trying because he is important to me.

    He lacks in confidence and fears at taking the responsibility; fears at taking ownership in what he says/does.
    I need to teach/improve him to be a man-on his own! without affecting his emotions.

    The problem is my voice tone that is actually a bit bold and straight forward ; even if i say some good things during an argument it reverse back to me as a hit because of voice tone:(

    Very pathetic to think how to train myself; please help me with some articles/books/advise

    August 18, 2014 at 4:41 am #63561
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    Well said Matt!. those are really inspiring words.!! I am big fan of your replies!!! God bless you…

    Hi Stephanie,

    Things will become fine sooner!! Don’t let your confidence down….

    If you don’t like your current career path, Learn your favourite subject and choose your new career. Simple as it sounds. But you should make confident steps and plan to reach there with passion. There may come hurdles, but slap them and move forward.
    Learn your fav subject side by side and get a new job.

    You motto of helping others will definitely help you in keep going!
    World will not end with this situation. There are many obstacles…, only a strong human can survive.
    God bless you with all the wealth and health that you need to help others.

    With Love,
    Ani

    Sorry for grammatical mistakes if any!

    August 18, 2014 at 4:29 am #63560
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    Going for a pleasant night walk with our love,A long drive through hilly areas, Nice Day Dream @office:-)
    When i cook and things come out very well above my expectation!! When a big problem vanishes just like that !!!
    Father’s love and care!

    All these and a lot more …… in the lists make me happy !!

    August 18, 2014 at 4:06 am #63559
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    Hi @lil-lily,

    I know how painful it is when our loved ones ignore us all of a sudden! its very hard to guess what thoughts are going on his mind.Give him some time. You do not know what is happening around him. Have you tried reaching him if he did not?

    In short span of time you may not get to know well about a person’s nature. Try reaching him in phone or in person and express what you actually feel for him and make him understand… Everything will be OKAY soon. Dont worry!!!

    With Love
    Ani

    Sorry for grammatical mistakes if any!

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