@J – Your situation really resonates greatly with me. I would love to offer you advice but I feel like @Matt as well as everyone else on here have done an absolutely amazing job from reading through everything. I also have very similar issues (about sex and your other emotional pains) and it would be absolutely amazing if I could possibly contact you for advice about my newfound breakup since I have so many questions that I feel like you might be able to answer. I would also do my best to talk to you about your situation since I think I can empathize to a large degree.

@Matt / @sojourner – Your responses were extremely powerful to me and really helped gave me a healthy perspective on my own breakup right now. Like J, and although this might be odd to ask (and you are free to decline), I would just really appreciate having the option to speak individuals who are extremely wise on this topic that might help me settle my chaotic emotions should I flare up.

Thank you so much all.