Dear Calista,
Every breakup is hard, even if deep down you know it is the right thing to do. My hugs to you. I am so happy for you that you got the courage to let go of something that dragged you down. I was there in your shoes and I can relate to the feelings. It is just too much when someone else points the finger at you for everything that’s wrong with their life. The wisdom in you already saw this through. Life always has a way of renewing and growing. You sound like a beautiful soul. Beautiful things will happen for you. Believe that things will get better and they will. Put the focus back on you. As you said, your fiance has to do the same. He needs to learn his own lessons. You’re going through a hard time right now. But it can be a time of self-reflection. Time to look into yourself and embrace all that you are and grow. Give yourself this time. And be very patient with yourself. Much love and warmth to you.
“Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly!” Proverb
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