Thank you Tiny Butterfly, Inky and AikiBen for your response.

In this guy, What was appreciable was that he was upfront with me with what he wanted and not someone who would manipulate to get things done. Also, he said clearly, to be friends and meet over a coffee, for he enjoyed deep conversations with me.

However, what sends many clues is:

1) After 4 years, he was bent upon to see me even for an hour, lied to his best friends and came for coffee, which later turned into overnight! Just a friend would do this? and not knowing the person much.

2) He feels sorry for being too fast with everything that happened and ensures to not come to my place and meet outside.

3) He will be in different city for the whole week, ready to come over weekend if I’m free, for now I have denied it. And constantly pinging for some or other reason, to be in touch. Does a guy who would just want sex would care to be in touch, could as well be he is needing attention….May be he noticed that I was getting emotionally attached to him and likes to be wanted? Wants to see me on Skype every night. Gets restless until I reply his messages.

Thank you for reading…