He was wrong in just going for it and not telling you up front what he wanted, but instead, he did it after the fact playing a mind game with you, and that isn’t cool.

He should have been straight up with you right from the start before getting physical. This would have dropped any expectations and mixed emotions right from the beginning.

In your scenario though Anyone, it sounds like you’re uneasy with having FWB and he isn’t. That being said, tell him up front and be honest. If you don’t want it, say it. And if he wanted something more with you he will hang around and respect that decision. If he didn’t, well he will probably just end up stop talking to you. Ultimately, do what your inner voice is telling you to do. And stand by it.