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Thank you xwhy for your words 🙂 So here’s the latest update… It’s been 2 weeks that he is in regular touch with me, all day long and I can see the caring part from his end… Yesterday I asked him, where do we stand and he admitted that we are more than friends but he wants me to go slow and doesn’t want me to be hurt later. I could interpret this in 2 ways: 1) He is not keen on commitment. 2) He is being practical and doesn’t want to commit blindly, esp. at this stage which is too early to say anything. But he did say we’re more than friends. He will be coming to spend this weekend.
Some clues that I have is he likes to see me smiling, concerned about my safety to return home, in touch all day. But I’m not sure if I can rely on these for long. And to the FWB concept, he said he wanted to confess it, since he wanted to be open, not that he wants this with me. In one of the conversations, he mentioned me as ‘someone special’. I’m gathering all possible small clues from all sides possible….:-)
Sometimes, my mind runs in all directions, and then I try to slow down. Think I should give it a try, what say?