Hello,

I read your post with great interest and I am in disbelief of the kind of stress you are under.

From my point of view, you need to ask yourself if he is the person you would want to spend your life with? And if the answer is affirmative then the path is pretty simple.

While you decide on what this, I would suggest you to stay besides him atleast as a friend as this is probably the worst time of his life and it would be morally improper to leave him in isolation. It is often said that a friend in need is a friend indeed, and even iff you later decide that he is not the person you want to spend your life with and walk away, I am sure you would walk away with a friend in him.

Hope this helps.

Ashley