I was just thinking about this topic of dating and relationships. I think many of us enter into a relationship not realizing how vulnerable we are emotionally. It isn’t until many of us grow older [me specifically], are disappointed and hurt a few times that we start to become aware of who we are mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. It’s taken me over 30 years of living, therapy and watching Oprah to realize relationships are much healthier, enjoyable and enduring when I’m thinking, feeling and acting from a position of confidence, self-respect and self love. I’ll admit that I’ve done my share of disappointing and hurting others too.
I want to echo what Paula said about self awareness and exploring your feelings. Listening to our hearts and intuition is such a valuable compass in making good, healthy choices and moving forward.
I suggest you read Steve Harvey’s books on dating. He offers humorous and practical advice that will guide you in make sound healthy choices.
God bless, Jim