Dear julia888:
i don’t know if Anyone is following this- I thought I will reply to your comment, being interested in examining this further, hoping you and/ or any reader may be interested in doing so.

I agree with your thinking and feeling about this topic, julia888. And I want to ask you: let’s say Anyone has suffered greatly having been abused by someone, maybe a parent, maybe her abuse was ignored by her whole family. Maybe she observed that they did not suffer while she suffered- that her abuser felt better after avbusing her. I am guessing here- maybe she continued to have relationships as an adult where wrong was done to her here and there and maybe she even tried to do “the right thing” and was mistreated or ignored anyway. Maybe her experience was that bad people do not get what is coming to them and doing the right thing does not bring you good results and she eventually figured: what the heck? What is the point?

IF that was the case, if that was her input- how would you respond to her then? What will you write?
anita